1. Shared Vision & Communication Styles
Explore how each partner thinks, feels, and expresses — uncovering key communication habits and building better listening dynamics.
➡️ Outcome: Awareness of shared values and improved communication map.
2. Financial Transparency & Roles
Understand money attitudes, spending patterns, and role expectations in financial and domestic domains.
➡️Outcome: Clear understanding of financial alignment and practical division of roles.
3. Everyday Harmony Framework
Develop actionable agreements for smoother decision-making, conflict resolution, and family interactions.
➡️ Outcome: Mini “Harmony Framework” to guide daily partnership choices.
1. Shared Intent & Emotional Landscape
Identify individual needs and shared expectations around emotional connection, security, and life direction.
➡️ Outcome: Emotional Awareness Map.
2. Money, Career & Life Priorities
Integrate practical discussions on income, savings, and career trajectories while maintaining personal autonomy.
➡️ Outcome: Financial & Career Alignment Blueprint.
3. Family Dynamics & Boundaries
Navigate relationships with parents, in-laws, and children; define healthy emotional and logistical boundaries.
➡️ Outcome: Family Boundary Charter.
4. Intimacy, Space & Mutual Respect
Understand evolving intimacy needs, personal space, and emotional safety; create shared rituals for connection.
➡️ Outcome: Intimacy & Connection Plan.
5. Shared Future & Draft Accord
Synthesize learnings into a first draft of your personalized Partnership Accord with commitments and next steps.
➡️ Outcome: Draft Partnership Accord + clarity roadmap.
1. Foundation of Alignment
Revisit shared purpose and relationship vision; identify strengths, blind spots, and recurring patterns in communication and decision-making.
➡️ Outcome: Joint alignment map of personal and shared goals.
2. Emotional Intelligence & Resilience
Deep dive into emotional needs, triggers, and repair mechanisms. Build personalized strategies for empathy, validation, and boundary maintenance.
➡️ Outcome: Emotional Resilience Toolkit.
3. Conflict Playbook Creation
Explore real-life disagreements; practice conflict de-escalation and respectful negotiation.
➡️ Outcome: Written Conflict Playbook with agreed repair and reset rituals.
4. Financial Architecture & Future Planning
Design your financial ecosystem: shared budgets, saving goals, risk management, and long-term investments.
➡️ Outcome: Transparent financial framework with agreed responsibilities.
5. Roles, Responsibilities & Domestic Partnership
Define shared and individual roles in work, caregiving, and household management; prevent burnout and resentment through clear agreements.
➡️ Outcome: Shared Responsibility Charter.
6. Intimacy, Trust & Boundaries
Cultivate emotional and physical intimacy; discuss privacy, digital boundaries, and evolving expectations over time.
➡️ Outcome: Intimacy & Boundaries Agreement.
7. Legal & Ethical Readiness
Understand rights and obligations in cohabitation, marriage, property, or family decisions. Optional legal resource session.
➡️ Outcome: Legal Readiness Brief and informed consent checklist.
8. Partnership Accord Finalization & First-Year Check-ins
Integrate all frameworks and finalize the Partnership Accord with measurable first-year goals and planned check-ins.
➡️ Outcome: Signed Partnership Accord + Annual Review Schedule.
